A little over a decade ago, a complex and heart-wrenching family secret from decades past surfaced. Shock, hurt, and disorientation overwhelmed me, propelling me into a relentless quest for answers. I made countless phone calls, scoured online resources, and became consumed. The more I uncovered, the more the intricate details added color, depth, and visuals to the family secret, intensifying my distress.
This investigation took a toll on my well-being, intensifying my anxiety and inability to sleep. After two months, I realized that it wasn’t just the family secret harming me—it was my own relentless pursuit of it. Despite the hope that knowing every detail would bring closure and detachment from the past, it only deepened my turmoil.
One morning, my intuition guided me to contemplate what I truly wanted in life, beyond this situation. The word ‘peace’ echoed within. I questioned whether continuing my research brought me peace; the answer was ‘no.’ In that moment, I made a commitment to accept what I had uncovered and stop trying to fill in the details. I honored this commitment, and looking back on it, I realize this is truly one of the best decisions I have ever made.
Recently, another important decision was made in pursuit of my well-being.
Over the last several years, I dedicated myself to writing a memoir—a profound journey of making sense of my life and translating my lived experiences onto the page.
I attended numerous writing classes, invested a significant amount of money in editing, and after years of pitching my book to agents and publishers, I finally secured an amazing contract with a publisher I was proud to partner with.
Despite this being a long-held dream of mine, after signing, I wasn’t excited. External events and internal shifts created different feelings within me. Instead of feeling eager to have my book out in the world, I experienced prolonged anxiety and a deep knowing that the all-eyes-on-me release is not what I needed at this time in my life. And so, I terminated my contract.
Whether this decision will also be one of the best decisions I’ve ever made remains uncertain. But what I do know is that it has brought me closer to my higher self, and these days, that is my number one priority.
Reflecting on my life, as I have been doing a lot lately, I can see that not only my pursuits but also my non-pursuits have contributed to many beautiful periods in my life. By not moving forward with certain things, I freed myself up and opened the door to new experiences, all while preserving and improving my health so I could fully embrace and enjoy what was in front of me. I share this reflection with you, encouraging you to consider:
- Are you working towards something on autopilot? When was the last time you revisited why you are moving forward?
- Has there been a shift in energy for you to pursue something new, but instead, you’re chasing an old dream or idea that no longer resonates with who you are now?
- Is your heart or your ego leading your pursuits?
- Does your present energy align with your current pursuits, or are you driven by past investments of time, money, and energy?
- Does the fear of perceived failure or not knowing what’s next prevent you from pivoting?
I hope you extend self-love to yourself, enabling you to stop pursuing anything that is no longer serving you. If I can be of assistance in this area or any other, whether through an In-person Tampa or Online session, it would be my honor to support you.
As for me, while I’m navigating some grief about my book no longer being published, I eagerly anticipate exciting new projects and opportunities coming my way because I am vibrating from a place of harmony and alignment.
Onwards!
Sincerely,
Dr. Danielle Clark | Psychic Medium
drdanielleclark.com
PS – To help you steer clear of old energies and influences, use this affirmation to come into the present, ‘My energy shifts effortlessly, aligning with the highest good and the rhythm of my evolving soul.’
PPS – Are you grappling with a decision, uncertain about the path to take? Would you like to explore the possibilities more deeply? If so, grab your pen and journal. Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, and place your hands on your heart. As you continue to breathe, envision all potential paths you could take. Tune into your body as you visualize the possibilities; our bodies serve as powerful compasses, guiding the way. Notice if your shoulders tense up, if there’s a knot in your stomach, or if you suddenly experience a sense of joy. Record what your body tells you. Repeat this exercise at various times of the day and week, observing new insights and consistent feelings.
Hi good evening Dr. Danielle Clark. I was in one of your older classes when I think Hurricane Milton hit hit. I had to unfortunately drop the class because of everything that happened but here I am back and still trying to grasp on to things. It feels like yesterday the big storm came through and I’m grasping on to my baby and dog to make sure they are safe.
I’m sorry to hear about your book no longer being published. I hope more doors open for you in the future.
After reading this blog it really showed me I’m not the only one going through something like this. It feels like I’ve been in a down ward spiraling loop for so long and I’m trying my best to come out of it. The way you described thing has made me take a different look and that there is a way out.
it may be the small things but I’ve been trying to get my self back up and together and with that I’ve booked myself a hair appointment. It may seem small to others but to me it will bring so much joy to try to feel like myself again.
Thank you for writing these blogs and for doing what you do! -Charlotte B.